Berna & Jamie

Rectory Farm // Clipston, Northamptonshire


Dancing, Tradition & Love – A Beautiful Turkish Engagement Ceremony in the UK


When Berna and Jamie first contacted me about photographing their traditional Turkish engagement ceremony, I was absolutely thrilled! I’d never photographed one before, but as Berna described the different ceremonial elements — from the family introductions to the symbolic rituals — it all sounded so beautifully romantic and meaningful.

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As always, I wanted to do the occasion justice, so I went away and researched the traditions of Turkish engagement ceremonies to understand the customs and capture every important moment authentically.


A Day Full of Emotion and Connection


When I arrived at their chosen location, I was immediately struck by how stunning everything looked — and how much love filled the air. This ceremony meant so much to both families, especially after a challenging lead-up with illness and uncertainty over whether everyone would be able to attend.


So seeing every key family member there, smiling and embracing, made the day feel even more special. The joy was palpable from the very first greeting.


A Traditional Turkish Engagement Ceremony


The ceremonies themselves were a beautiful mix of tradition, symbolism, and celebration. Watching Jamie’s father formally ask permission for his son to propose to Berna was such a touching moment, followed by Berna’s family graciously accepting.


Next came one of my favourite customs — Berna preparing and presenting a special salted coffee to Jamie. This playful tradition is full of laughter and good spirit, and it was wonderful to see everyone join in the fun.


Once both families had agreed, Jamie’s father cut the red ribbon connecting the couple’s engagement rings, with Berna’s sister giving her blessing. Jewellery, pins, hugs, and heartfelt wishes followed, marking the start of a beautiful new chapter for them both.


Food, Family and Dancing!


And then, of course, came the celebration — and what a celebration it was! Plates of delicious homemade Turkish food, trays of Turkish delight, chocolates, and plenty of wine and champagne filled the tables.


The built-in Alexa in the kitchen didn’t get a moment’s rest as the music played and everyone — from young cousins to grandparents — joined in the dancing. Even Nana joined via video link from Turkey to meet the in-laws and share in the joy.


The sun shone, laughter echoed through the garden, and the smiles never stopped. It was a perfect reminder that love, family, and tradition can bring people together across any distance.


Capturing Cultural Ceremonies with Heart


Photographing Berna and Jamie’s Turkish engagement ceremony was an incredible honour. I learned so much about a beautiful tradition, and witnessing two families come together in such a joyful, meaningful way was something I’ll never forget.


If you’re planning a cultural or traditional engagement or wedding ceremony in the UK, I’d love to capture it for you. Whether it’s Turkish, Indian, Greek, or a blend of cultures, my approach is relaxed, natural, and respectful — focusing on the real emotion, laughter, and moments that matter most.


Get in touch to check my availability or find out more about my UK wedding and engagement photography.

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“We hired Sarah to capture our engagement party and we are thrilled we did. We are so pleased with the photographs she took. Her attention to detail is first class and we are over the moon with the memories of the day that she captured.”